Here’s what Law of Attraction and Relationship Coach Anisa Aven has to say about attracting the love you want, whether you’re in a relationship or looking!
“What you put your attention upon expands and you magnetize and attract into your life whatever you FEEL and THINK on a regular basis.
When it comes to attracting a relationship, if you don’t find it EASY, then rest assured you are allowing a limiting belief to run (and ruin) your life!
And, until you eliminate that limiting belief – you will not attract the relationship you really desire.
You have the Power within to intentionally harness the Law of Attraction and manifest your ideal relationship. As you eliminate the fog of negativity that surrounds you, (this is true, even if you are a fairly positive person) you will notice more potential mates everywhere you go!”
You can find out more about Anisa Aven here and her special Valentine’s Day Promotion
I was a single parent for seven years before I met my current husband. My children were very small when I was raising them on my own…and my life was a lot more hectic back then. I wanted very much to attract a healthy relationship, but I was scared. To tell you the truth, I found myself focusing a lot on the fact that “I was alone” and “how hard it was being a single parent” and how much I didn’t like it.
Well, guess what? The more I focused on being alone, the more “aloneness” I got!
The good news is I was aware of what I was doing and I knew that my thoughts were creating my reality. I knew that if I wanted to attract a healthy relationship, the best thing I could do is be happy, and stop focusing on what I didn’t want.
Once I finally decided to enjoy myself, no matter what my relationship status was…and once I decided to upgrade my thoughts and emotions to feeling excited about the day I would meet someone who would fit most of the traits on my Wish List, it wasn’t long before I actually met him.
I don’t mean to sugar coat everything. It was a process. I’m a big proponent of The Law of Detachment because I believe that’s as important as The Law of Attraction.
If you’re attached to the specific results, such as: I want to attract a mate by next month, or it has to be a specific person like Suzie or Johnnie, then you are probably attached to the results.
The same rule applies to the situation where you would like to experience more love and joy in your current relationship.
While focusing on what you want is the best thing you can do, being attached to the outcome can keep what you want at arms length.
The simple formula for manifesting anything, even more love and joy in your current relationship is:
- Ask The Universe (Visualize, Imagine it the way you want it to be)
- Take Inspired Action (When you are inspired to take action, take it!)
- Trust that the Universe will bring what you want to you in Divine Order.
And remember, it may not look exactly the way you saw it in your imagination…and that’s okay. Because who doesn’t love happy surprises?
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I agree whole heartedly, except I think trust needs to come 1st, or at least 2nd in the above formula! :0)